I wish I had more news to share but the chemo started at 6pm ish and it is a 4 hour drip. We are all waiting and praying that it is not too difficult for her.
My dad bought her a blank book to write in, turns out that is exactly what the speech therapist said to do. As I was reading in her book she has been writing down almost daily things that she is grateful for. My mom told me when I was a teenager it is a choice to be happy. I know that she is going through a very hard time right now, both her and my dad, yet she is choosing to focus on the happy and not all the crap.
Today was not only a first for my mom it also has been a time of firsts for my dad. Dad correct me if I am wrong; first time changing sheets on a bed, doing laundry and handling household expenses. These firsts for my dad were just today. The last 6 months he has been taking care of our mom mostly by himself. Someone who will remain anonymous said "it would be like having Clint Eastwood taking care of you." as funny as that is to all who know our dad it may be a little true. But that is why we are all so impressed with him and his ability to put his wants and needs second.
Thanks for the updates. Both your mom and dad are in our prayers.
ReplyDeleteThanks the the updates. Your dad should be sleeping great with a view like that! Glad you posted the picture of him. Give you mom hugs for us and tell her we are praying for her :) and that we love her!!
ReplyDeleteThere are worse things than chemo. She will do fine. There are so many people that live you all and are praying for you all too. One of the bad things about chemo is that nothing tastes good... Well nothing but chocolate and ice cream. I will bring her a chocolate frosty when she wants to have visitors.
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